The Right and Good Courage of a God's Lady

There will be a time in our lives that we need to stand up for something and to fight what is right and good. This article are for the single men and ladies who are looking for their special someone, for the right reasons why wait for that one of a kind significant other.

My girl friends and senior ladies that I look up to, were my corner stones of being a strong lady, and their teachings guided me well. God had blessed me with the courage and wisdom on how to politely act to some inevitable situations in my life. Being an adult single woman in our generation today is tough. Temptations and lies are just around every corner; from the gossips in the office, to the dating world, and  social stigma of the crowd surrounding us. The sensitive issue of double standards of society, the famous line of "being in" to engage to immoral acts, " the more you can score" and "girls were called whore". I think being a bitch is subjective, women can be called "bitches" anytime, or for men "jerks", being aware of being a bitch or jerk has guidelines.

It’s not easy to stand and have courage, to be called "manang"  or old maid, "Virgin Mary", demure, monk. Our Virgin Mama Mary was so humble that she obeyed the Lord. Obeying is not easy and it is easy for anyone to bash someone, to judge women due to her way of clothing, and to label girls because they choose to be single and wait for their God's gift, the man who upholds Jesus' teachings and applying it to his life. I know the feeling, I am sharing this kind of feelings that we are having. We are all waiting for the right man or woman, for that sincere person. But I tell you, Jesus is the right man, I think the correct term is, we are waiting for the the right version of Jesus to be our partner in life (the lad or lady who follows Jesus). We don't need to worry, He will give us, our God's gift, on His time. But of course, we also need to apply necessary efforts and notice the lads around us. We will be able to weed out. Patience, and sincerity will guide us. Ask for discernment through prayers, and we will be able to choose that honest and loving person.

Relationships don't just happen, it is like a plant that we need to take care of, nurturing it with right amount of love and care. That is like the love of God to us, He nurtures us, more often we always took Him for granted.

I am happy, I stand up for my faith. I stand up for the right courage to be God’s child on my personal dealings, because of His love, He changed my view about this world. Even the world is not beautiful because of some people, living here, to be alive, enabling me to touch others is worth living. Living with the right courage because of the Lord God, I salute all the men and women that honors Christian teachings especially those who were practicing it in their daily lives.

Being a Catholic-Christian is not easy, I accepted that fact when I confirmed my faith. Thus, it made my life more difficult. To conform in this world is the easiest way out for anyone. But because of God's graces and wisdom, He had given me the strength not to be swayed and dictated by norms of society.

I choose the hard life because I know it is worth it. I realized that I am not born out of convenience but with my parents mutual decisions and actions in grasping their responsibilities, as two individuals surrendered on God's veil of marriage.

Love from God is the best thing in this world. And you will feel it, with the honest or genuine care and concern of those who love us.

And I trust in time, God will reveal His gift to me, His gifts for us ladies or the wife the you are waiting for, for the men who reads this.

Be firm! We are God's courageous sons and daughters!

I leave you with this special verse and hold on to it: The Future's Glory

Roman 8:18
"The pain that you've been feeling can't compare to the joy that's coming."
God's glory is more than the love story that we are waiting in this world. Our real Prince, not just Charming, the Selfless lover, is Jesus. He's the ultimate lover of Humanity. Humble and fighter for us.
Worrying for a decision? Let's always trust God in our dealings. He is always right and He is always Good!