The Christmas Star: A Meditation on the Incarnation
In an age obsessed with identity, self-expression, and personal branding, the ancient word humility has nearly vanished from our cultural vocabulary. We have become a people who know how to project ourselves, but not how to empty ourselves. This reflection reaches back to a moment when Fulton J. Sheen could still speak of kenosis—Christ’s self-emptying—as the central drama of history—and brings that insight into sharp conversation with our present moment. Drawing on Sheen’s luminous imagery of the Incarnation and the washing of the feet, it argues that the deepest crises of our age—spiritual, cultural, economic, and personal—stem from a fullness that leaves no room for God. True renewal begins not with more accumulation but with surrender. This is a meditation on the forgotten strength of humility, the paradox of divine descent, and the possibility that the healing of our time may begin with the oldest prayer of all: the courage to be emptied so that we may finally be filled.
There are moments in history when humanity swells with such confidence—technological, economic, political—that it forgets the oldest law of the soul: what is full cannot be filled. Every age has its illusion of self-sufficiency, but ours has perfected it. We have compressed the world into a pocket, multiplied our voices through screens, and crowned the autonomous self as the final arbiter of meaning. And yet, beneath the noise, a quiet hunger grows.
You feel this too—the exhaustion of carrying a self too heavy to sustain, the ache of fullness that still leaves you empty, the restless impulse to reach for the next technological fix without knowing what wound you are trying to soothe. It is the strange poverty of our age: to have everything at our fingertips and still not know what we lack.
It is into this modern fullness that an ancient word returns with surprising force: kenosis—the Greek term St. Paul uses in Philippians 2:7 to describe Christ, “who emptied Himself, taking the form of a servant.” Kenosis is not a poetic flourish; it is the very architecture of redemption. It is the Divine choosing descent. It is God bending low enough to lift humanity high.
Fulton Sheen saw this with piercing clarity. In his meditation on Christ’s suffering, he described the Lord as “emptying Himself, making Himself nothing, enduring the bitterness of separation to the last extremity of Golgotha.” For Sheen, this was not merely a theological point—it was the pattern of all sanctity. Christ’s emptying is the first kenosis; our emptying is the second.
And here the paradox sharpens: The Infinite empties Himself to enter the finite; the finite must empty itself to receive the Infinite. This is the hinge of the spiritual life, and the hinge of history. Every civilization rises on humility and collapses on pride. Every soul grows by surrender and withers by self-assertion. Every renewal—personal or societal—begins with a letting go.
Kenosis is not weakness. It is the strength to release what cannot save. It is the courage to make space for what is greater than the self. It is the refusal to let ego become the ceiling of one’s destiny. It is the unburdening of the self. In an age swollen with self, kenosis becomes a revolutionary act of love.
Christ’s descent into our condition—mind, body, and spirit—was not a theatrical gesture. It was the Divine entering the full poverty of the human story so that humanity might enter the full richness of the Divine life. And here Sheen offers the scene that crystallizes the entire mystery of humility:
“The scene was a summary of His Incarnation. Rising up from the Heavenly Banquet in intimate union of nature with the Father, He laid aside the garments of His glory, wrapped about His Divinity the towel of human nature which He took from Mary; poured the laver of regeneration which is His Blood shed on the Cross to redeem men, and began washing the souls of His disciples and followers through the merits of His death, Resurrection and Ascension.”
“The disciples are motionless, lost in mute astonishment. When humility comes from the God-man as it does here, it is obvious that it will be through humility that men will go back to God.” —†— Fulton J. Sheen, Life of Christ (1958)
In this single gesture—God kneeling before man—the entire Gospel is compressed into one act of humility.
This is kenosis made visible. This is the pattern that judges every age—including ours. Christ empties Himself to wash feet; we must empty ourselves to walk in His way. Perhaps this is why our moment feels so restless. We have filled ourselves with everything but the one thing that satisfies. We have mistaken accumulation for abundance, noise for meaning, autonomy for freedom. We have crowded our souls with noise until silence feels like loss—and are told there is an app or device to fix even that. The world tells us to curate ourselves; Christ tells us to empty ourselves. The world says “assert yourself”; the Gospel says “offer yourself.”
Without humility, even our progress becomes a prison. Without humility, our age will collapse under the weight of its own self-importance. Without humility, we cannot return to God. And yet the ancient pattern remains: Only the emptied soul can be filled. Only the surrendered will can be free. Only the humbled heart becomes spacious enough for truth.
So, the question for our time is not whether God still fills. The question is whether we will make room.
And maybe—just maybe—the renewal we seek in our culture, our Church, and our own hearts begins with the simplest, hardest prayer: “Lord, empty me of what is mine, that You may fill me with what is Yours.”
History shows that God writes straight with crooked lines—but He writes best on a clean page, one cleared by humility. And perhaps this is why the human heart remains so restless in every age, why even our fullness feels like famine: as Augustine confessed long ago, our hearts are restless until they rest in Thee.
Author’s Note
This reflection was written in the company of two great guides of the Christian imagination: St. Augustine, who diagnosed the human condition with unmatched clarity, and Fulton J. Sheen, who unveiled the humility of Christ with unmatched brilliance.
Augustine reminds us that every restless age is simply repeating the oldest ache of the soul—the longing to return to the One who made it. Sheen reminds us that the path back is not through power, noise, or self-assertion, but through the humility of Christ, who “laid aside the garments of His glory” and knelt to wash the feet of those He came to save.
Together, they reveal the heart of this essay: that the healing of our time will not come from greater autonomy, louder identities, or more technological mastery, but from the ancient, liberating act of kenosis—the emptying that makes room for God.
If this meditation awakens even a small desire for that humility, then let it be a quiet grace of this moment, a reminder that the way back to God is always the way down, and that the soul emptied of itself becomes the very place where God begins again.