St. Carlo Acutis Urges Us to Fight the Culture of Death
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Saints are the real-life heroes we look to as examples for how to model our own lives. And they are the people whose lives we use as lessons as we teach our children to navigate our turbulent world. The saints help us understand God’s love, His charity, His compassion, His forgiveness, and so much more. St. Damien, who so lovingly cared for the lepers on the island of Molokai, is someone we can look to as we try to become more compassionate.
Born in Belgium in 1840, the man who would later be Fr. Damien joined the priesthood at the age of 19. Five years later, he was ordained a priest and began his ministry in Hawaii. For nearly 10 years, he traveled throughout the island teaching the word of God. When he heard that the people living in the leper colony on the island of Molokai were entrenched in a life of immorality and drunkenness, he felt called to minister to them. Knowing he would likely catch the disease and die there, St. Damien volunteered to go anyway. For 16 years, he lived among the lepers, helping them build houses, teaching them about Christ, loving them, and helping them understand that they still had dignity despite their illness.
St. Damien cared for people no one wanted to even look at. He taught them about Christ. And he made them believe that, despite their awful illness, they still had value.
We can learn so much from St. Damien, but here are five simple ways we can use his example to be more saintlike and to teach our kids to be more saintlike:
A true hero protects others and is an example of Christ’s love. We can teach our children to emulate him by teaching them how to stand up for their little brothers and sisters, by teaching them to stand up for someone who’s being bullied on the playground, and by teaching them to stand up for their faith. These behaviors will make them feel powerful, and when they feel powerful, they will be more willing to continue these heroic actions.
St. Damien took care of the people in the leper colony, not just spiritually but physically as well. He helped them build houses, taught them how to use utensils, taught them to make their own clothes, and more, all while teaching them about Christ’s love for them. We can use his example to teach our children the Corporal and Spiritual Works of Mercy. And we can help them identify which ones they can do on their own, such as pray for others, feed the hungry, or clothe the naked.
People were disgusted by the lepers; they were repulsed by their sores and wounds. But St. Damien didn’t see ugly lepers. He saw children of Christ. We can teach our children to see Christ in all people by repeatedly talking about how Christ is in all of us. We live that belief and let our kids see our example. We expose them to many different kinds of people and have conversations about how all people are made in the image and likeness of God, regardless of how they look on the outside. When kids grow up looking for Christ in others, it will be much easier to find Him.
St. Damien literally gave his life to help others better their own lives and to save them spiritually. Most of us aren’t called to actually give our lives for others, but we can give of ourselves every day. We can teach our children to pray and fast for others. We can teach them the value of time and how giving their time and attention to a little sibling or a sad friend can make a huge difference in their lives. And we can teach them the inherent value of suffering—that when they suffer, they can offer it up for someone who is hurting or for a soul in Purgatory.
There were times when St. Damien felt lonely, but he found solace in his faith. Sometimes we—or our children—feel lonely too. We must work every day to increase and strengthen our faith. We can teach our children to always seek out God, Mary, and the saints when we need help. Create a prayer journal with your children and write when prayers are answered. Talk about how God answers prayers in ways we may not understand and that prayers are not always answered right away.
St. Damien is a true Catholic hero—one who teaches us how to be more compassionate and loving to others. We need his example now more than ever.
If you want to teach your kids about this amazing saint, check out this booklet about his life.
Susan Lochner Ciancio has a BA in psychology and a BA in sociology from the University of Notre Dame and an MLS from Indiana University. She has worked as a writer and editor since 2003; nearly 17 of those years have been in the pro-life sector. Currently, she is the editor of American Life League’s Celebrate Life Magazine—the nation’s premier Catholic pro-life magazine. She is also the director and executive editor of ALL’s Culture of Life Studies Program—a pre-K-12 Catholic pro-life education organization. Susan has written hundreds of Catholic and secular articles and has edited nearly two dozen books.
