One Lord, One Faith, One Church: A Call to Come Home!
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From the earliest days of the Church, Christians have entered the faith not merely through words or teachings alone but through powerful encounters with Christ Himself in the sacraments. Among these, the Sacraments of Initiation—Baptism, Confirmation, and Eucharist—stand as the sacred threshold through which a person becomes a member of the Body of Christ. They do not merely symbolize faith; they confer grace, transform lives, and draw the soul into intimate communion with the living God.
The Apostolic Foundations
The roots of Christian initiation lie firmly planted in the apostolic age. Our Lord Himself established these sacraments, entrusting them to the Church for the salvation of all. Jesus declared:
“Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.” (Matthew 28:19)
Baptism is the gateway. Yet in the Acts of the Apostles, we see that Baptism was often immediately followed by the laying on of hands to confer the Holy Spirit—a gesture signifying what we now call Confirmation (Acts 8:14-17; Acts 19:5-6). Finally, the newly baptized would share in the “breaking of the bread” (Acts 2:42), the Eucharist, through which they fully joined the life of the Christian community.
The apostolic Church saw initiation as a unified, sacred passage into Christ—a single journey encompassing rebirth in water, anointing with the Spirit, and communion at the Lord’s Table.
Testimony of the Early Church
Early Church writings confirm this unified practice. St. Justin Martyr (2nd century) describes Baptism followed immediately by prayers, the kiss of peace, and the Eucharistic liturgy. St. Cyril of Jerusalem (4th century) meticulously explains how the newly baptized are anointed and then participate in the mysteries of Christ’s Body and Blood. St. Ambrose of Milan and St. Augustine likewise speak of Baptism, Confirmation (or “Chrismation”), and Eucharist as inseparable steps of one Christian birth.
Thus, for the first centuries, initiation was essentially a single rite, especially celebrated during the great Paschal vigil.
Why Were the Sacraments Separated?
In the Western Church, pastoral circumstances gradually led to separating Baptism, Confirmation, and Eucharist:
The Order and Its Changes
Historically, the traditional order of sacraments was always Baptism → Confirmation → Eucharist. Yet in many Latin dioceses in the 20th century, Eucharist began preceding Confirmation, so that children would receive First Communion around age 7 and Confirmation later.
Pope St. Pius X, in his 1910 decree Quam Singulari, lowered the age for First Communion but did not intend to change the sequence. Nonetheless, the practical result was that Confirmation shifted later in childhood or adolescence.
The Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC) affirms:
“The holy Eucharist completes Christian initiation.” (CCC 1322)
Recent years have seen dioceses moving back toward restoring the traditional sequence, emphasizing that Confirmation is not a “graduation” from faith but a strengthening of baptismal grace.
What is a Sacrament?
A sacrament is: “An outward sign instituted by Christ to give grace.” (Baltimore Catechism)
The Catechism of the Catholic Church elaborates: “The sacraments are efficacious signs of grace, instituted by Christ and entrusted to the Church, by which divine life is dispensed to us.” (CCC 1131)
Through visible rituals—water, oil, bread, and wine—Christ Himself acts, pouring His grace into the soul.
The Role of Parents, Godparents, and Sponsors
Parents are the first and most important teachers of faith. At their child’s baptism, they publicly promise: “You must make it your constant care to bring him/her up in the practice of the faith.”
The Church sees parents as the “first heralds” of the Gospel to their children (CCC 2225). Their task is to nurture faith through prayer at home, teaching Christian values, and ensuring their children receive proper catechesis and the sacraments.
The Code of Canon Law (CIC) provides specific guidance about godparents and sponsors:
Godparents and sponsors are far more than ceremonial figures. They are spiritual guardians, chosen to accompany the child or adult on the journey of faith.
For Confirmation, the role of the sponsor mirrors that of a baptismal godparent. The sponsor’s purpose is: “to take care that the confirmed person behaves as a true witness of Christ and faithfully fulfills the obligations inherent in this sacrament.” (CIC, can. 892) PLEASE READ THAT SENTENANCE AGAIN, AND AGAIN, AND AGAIN.
This means that the sponsor is not only a witness to the sacrament but bears a genuine responsibility for the confirmand’s spiritual life. They are called:
This corrective role springs from love. As Proverbs says: “My son, do not despise the Lord’s discipline or be weary of his reproof, for the Lord reproves him whom he loves.” (Proverbs 3:11-12)
A sponsor’s duty to “correct” does not mean harsh criticism, but rather gentle, firm encouragement to remain faithful to Christ. St. Paul counsels: “Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness.” (Galatians 6:1)
In this way, the sponsor becomes a true companion in the faith, helping the confirmand integrate their sacramental grace into daily life.
Children and youth, as they grow, must themselves embrace the faith. Preparation for Confirmation and Eucharist is not simply educational but deeply personal. Young Catholics are invited to open their hearts to Christ, to understand their faith, and to be ready to live as witnesses of the Gospel.
Thus, the entire community of faith—parents, godparents, sponsors, and the Church—works together so that those who receive the sacraments of initiation can grow into mature, faithful disciples of Jesus Christ.
The Transforming Power of the Sacraments
The sacraments of initiation are not a mere rite of passage. They are a true encounter with Christ:
St. Thomas Aquinas calls the Eucharist: “The perfection of the spiritual life and the end of all the sacraments.”
Living a Sacramental Life
To live a sacramental life means to live in constant relationship with Jesus Christ, who comes to us through visible signs to give invisible grace. It is a life in which faith is not confined to church walls or occasional rituals but shapes our choices, relationships, and identity. For someone initiated into the faith, it means regularly participating in the Eucharist, confessing one’s sins and seeking reconciliation, praying daily, reading Scripture, serving others, and striving to grow in holiness. The sacraments are not isolated moments; they are divine gifts that sustain and transform us so we can “put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness” (Ephesians 4:24).
For our youth, a sacramental life means recognizing that God is close and personally interested in their joys, struggles, hopes, and decisions. It calls them to live with integrity, compassion, and courage, strengthened by the grace of Baptism, the gifts of the Holy Spirit from Confirmation, and the nourishment of the Eucharist. Parents, godparents, sponsors, catechists, and parish communities must help our young people stay connected to the sacraments, especially the Eucharist and Reconciliation, so that the spark of faith ignited at Baptism and Confirmation is not extinguished but burns brightly into adulthood. Encouraging youth groups, mentoring, regular Mass attendance, involvement in parish service, and open conversations about faith all help young Catholics discover that the sacramental life is not a burden but the path to authentic joy and freedom. As Pope Francis reminds us:
“The sacraments… lead us to see Christ in our brothers and sisters, especially in the poor and suffering, to serve him in them.” (Evangelii Gaudium, 47)
When young Catholics understand this, they come to know Jesus not merely as a historical figure or religious idea, but as a living friend who walks with them, strengthens them, and calls them to greatness.
When we live a sacramental life, we are gradually transformed. These sacraments enable us:
Pope St. John Paul II taught: “Through the sacraments, Christ communicates his Holy Spirit as the sanctifier… he heals and transforms our hearts.” (Ecclesia de Eucharistia, 17)
Indeed, to live the sacramental life is to live in daily friendship with Christ. The grace of our Baptism, the boldness of our Confirmation, and the sustaining love of the Eucharist enable us to echo the words of St. Paul: “It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me.” (Galatians 2:20)
And that is the deepest purpose of all the sacraments: to bring each of us into intimate union with Jesus, to be transformed by His love, and to walk as sons and daughters of God.
God Bless
Deacon Wally was born and raised in Michigan. In 1987 he joined the United States Marine Corps. Originally, he was not planning on making a career with the Corps, however as time moved on, Calabrese spent 20 years on active duty and retired in 2007 as a Gunnery Sergeant. During his time in the Corps and while stationed overseas in Okinawa Japan, he met his bride, Amy. They married on April 11, 1992, and were blessed with two daughters, Lori (Thomas) and Leeza (Kevin). Both daughters are married and have children. Upon retirement from the Marine Corps, Calabrese began working for the local community college as the campus chair. Calabrese spent 13 years with the college and decided to leave full-time work to pursue writing and speaking extensively. Deacon Wally was ordained to the diaconate June 26, 2010. He was in the second class for the Diocese of Raleigh. Upon ordination, Calabrese was assigned to Annunciation Parish in Havelock, NC. Calabrese authored The Apostles and Me! Deacon Wally also has authored booklets titled, Confirmed and Ready! and Living a Catholic and Moral Life. Calabrese has a passion for spreading the great love of Christ and the Catholic Faith. Deacon Wally earned his bachelor's degree from Embry Riddle Aeronautical University, and he holds a master's degree in Pastoral Theology from St. Joseph’s College, Standish, ME. For more information on Deacon Wally Calabrese please visit his website: www.deaconwallycalabrese.com
