How to Become More Beautiful

The Prodigal Son
Lately the story of the Prodigal Son has been on my mind because several news songs about it have been playing on the Christian radio station I like to listen to. [Luke 15:11-32] In the story the youngest son demands his inheritance money from his father before his father has passed away. Then he leaves his home and wastes all of the money on women, drinking, and all kinds of "debauchery," as the Bible says. After some time the money runs out and he has no food so he gets a job working for a pig farmer, but he isn't paid very well and even the food he is feeding the pigs looks appetizing. So, in an effort to avoid starving, he decides to return to his home and work for his father as a servant. His father, upon seeing him arriving, runs to him, greets him and throws a big party for him. His father is not mad at him at all for wasting all the money.
The King of Mercy
I believe we are currently living in the age of the Prodigal. Right now God is looking out the window just waiting to catch a glimpse of us on the road leading back to Him so He can run to us, greet us and throw us a big welcome home party! I have come to this conclusion primarily from the writings of Saint Faustina and from Anne* with Direction for our Times. Both of these woman wrote down messages from Jesus with the central message of: Jesus is the King of Mercy. His mercy is for everyone, He loves everyone, and He desires our trust in Him.
God's mercy is available in our current time more abundantly than ever before because we are nearing the final battle between good and evil, and the Lord desires to win as many souls as possible before He returns as The Just Judge. This time of mercy may last only a short while, or thousands of years, we don't really know, what we do know is that God's mercy is available to us,but we must ask for it and be willing to receive it.
What You Should Know About Heaven & Hell
In order to desire to receive God's mercy we must understand what the stakes are. The battle I mentioned above between good and evil is a real battle going on throughout the entire world right now. God is actively sending the angels, His graces, and mercy to anyone who is willing to receive them. These will give them courage, strength and faith to choose the side of good and help with the work of Heaven, which is striving to bring other people into the fold.
The devil is actively working to deceive people into believing that God, and even himself, do not exist so we will be lulled into an apathetic state where we do not care about anything spiritual or in some cases anything at all. Or to shift people's attention away from God and onto material things and worries so they will not have time for God. I think he tricks people into doing nothing at all more often than doing evil things.
Your job is to make a choice about which side to follow. This is the most important choice of your life. Your choice is eternal and can never be undone once your time on Earth is complete, so choose wisely.
False Beliefs
The Truth
None of the previous three beliefs are the truth and believing any one of them can cause you a lot of problems in your life. I personally used to believe the third falsehood. The truth about Heaven & Hell is this:
The Practical Reality
What does all of this mean for all of us Prodigal sons and daughters who are living in the world today, with no thoughts about God, or avoiding God because we consider Him too demanding, or too strict, or too far away to care about us.
You Have Been Given a Choice
If I asked you right now, "Do you want to go to Heaven?" What would you say? I hope that most people would say "Yes." Even the most lost soul finds it difficult to understand why anyone would willing choose eternal pain and punishment over eternal joy and freedom. So if you said, "Yes, I want to go to Heaven," then I would say, "Prove it." The reality is Jesus is asking each one of us a question, "Do you want to be with me or not?" Heaven is being with Jesus, and all the perks that come along with living with the Creator of the Universe, and Hell is being without Jesus, and all of the torments that come along with being separated from Jesus and living with the Father of Lies.
While it is true that we can say yes, with words, do our lives match that yes? Consider a man who tells his wife, yes I love you, then stays out late into the night every night, and does everything he can to avoid seeing his wife. Would you say this man actually loves his wife or not? This is the same with God, if a man says, yes I want to go to Heaven, then does all he can do avoid God, by hanging out all night with his friends, and never even talking with God, does he actually want to go to Heaven? It seems to me he enjoys being without God more than being with God, and so at the end of his life, Jesus will ask him, "Do you choose Heaven or Hell?" His whole life will be presented before him, and he will be given a big pie chart showing how much time he spent with God and how much time he spent avoiding God. Whichever slice is bigger determines whether he said yes or no with his life, because his actions spoke louder than his words. So despite it being unlikely that there is an actual pie chart, the idea is still the same, in order to prove that you want to go to Heaven, you must prove it with your life, aka time, talent, treasures, rather than words alone.
What Does my Yes Look Like?
So now that it's been established you have to choose Heaven and you have to prove you choose it based on the way you live what does that look like on a daily basis?
Jesus has given us all kinds of guidelines and advice about how to live. We have the 10 commandments, the corporal and spiritual works of mercy, the beatitudes. All of these are great ways to practice proving your yes, but let us remember, we have already established you can not earn your way into Heaven. It can be a great temptation to run off and start saying 5 rosaries a day, signing up for the soup kitchen, dog shelter, and local senior center bingo night, but are you getting caught up in performing actions in order to earn your way into Heaven? All while you are running yourself ragged?
Jesus said, "I have come so that they may have life and have it to the full." He also said, "I give you a new commandment: love one another; you must love one another just as I have loved you."
The best way to prove you want to go to Heaven is to live your life to the fullest and love God and all the people in your life. This will look differently for every individual but here are some guidelines:
If you can start practicing these five things on a daily basis, God will be able to work in your life in a more significant way because you will be saying Yes to Him with your life. He can then revel to you His specific will and plan for you.
But You Don't Understand I'm a really Bad Person!
If you still think there is no hope for you, because up to this point in your life you've been saying "No, you do not want to go to Heaven" with your life never fear!
Jesus is the King of Mercy and as the King of Mercy he said to Saint Faustina, "The greater the sinner the greater right he has to my Mercy."
Jesus died for you. If you were the only person in the world, he still would have died for you. It doesn't matter what you've done. you can be made new.
In the past. I was addicted to a particular sin. I felt like a slave to this addiction and it seemed impossible to get free. The only way this sin was overcome was when I admitted to God that I was unable to free myself from this sin, then allowed Him to free me from it. God did not disappoint, and I was free from that addiction nearly instantly. I am not free of all temptation to fall into that sin again, but God's grace has protected me from falling back into it. All you must do is allow God to work in you. He will take care of, but you have to give Him the time to do the work, by being open to Him.
If you're a Catholic, go to Sacrament of Confession. Jesus gives us great graces to overcome sin in this Sacrament and washes us clean of the sins we have already committed.
Remember while we still breath, it's never too late and no sin is too big, all Prodigals can return to God our Father's open arms. He is waiting for you today! Shake off that apathy and doubt and be free in the Father's love!
*http://directionforourtimes.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/Bishop-Leo-OReilly-Imprimatur-Statement.pdf